My planner

I live by my planner. I feel a sense of accomplishment when I get things done in my planner. I feel bad when I don't get everything done. I have a tendency to have to transfer a couple things a week (like currently it's filling out Parker's Baby book and doing thank yous) to the next week. And I feel bad when I have to do that. So my best friend made a suggestion: get rid of the planner. I don't know that I could do that. I thought I would just mention that.